This one is for the ladies...mostly.

I wrote this a long time ago while one of my closest friends was going through some shit. I still think it's a pretty good blog and it definitely sparks conversation. I've gone back and revised parts of it. The original is still posted on Myspace.

I feel compelled to write this. It's about sex and how much guys suck...Yes I said it, guys SUCK. Big whoop wanna fight about it? There are few guys like me left. I'm not trying to be conceited but I am a "nice guy" and sometimes it seems like that's a rarity. I have encountered so many guys who's only interaction with women is staring at them and doing anything they can to get in their pants. The "hot" guys, the "playas" the "pimps." They aren't cool. They're sluts. That's right SLUTS. People need to stop glorifying these guys and call them for what they really are. Girls are emotionally vulnerable for the most part. These womanizing d-bags know this. Many guys know just the right things to say to hit exactly the nerves to get "some ass." When you ask most girls (and some guys) about sex the common answer is "Only with someone I love" Well I'm here to let you know that isn't good enough. It's far more important that they love you in return. Plus if the person you're with truly cares about you, they're not going to try and talk you into something so big like sex to begin with. I understand that sometimes it just kind of happens but that's where self-control kicks in and it's up to you to stop it before it goes too far. Girls are more likely to see sex as a very emotional thing... and that's what it is. Many guys on the other hand, see it as a good time. Just to let everyone know, hot or sexy guys are most often the ones who will take advantage of a girl. That's why I strongly dislike attractive guys. I wish girls would look around and realize that the best guys aren't always the prettiest. I cannot comprehend why they don't see that. I can't imagine treating a woman like some guys would. I can't stand this shit. Guys talk about women like they're just...items. Oh yeah! pussy! whoo hoo! That mentality does nothing but cause pain and it pisses me off really freakin' bad. It turns wonderful passionate, pretty girls into hollow shells. Sex is a powerful thing meant to bond people together. Girls become attached to a guy and end up being hurt by his manipulating. All I really want to tell everyone is that girls need to be smart about the guys they pick. I understand that girls can get urges that are just as strong as a guys. It's not like girls don't think about sex outside of the context of love. They do but they need to be strong and not give in. Guys could use a bit of self control too. Remember I'm not accusing all men of being barbarians, but there are simply way too many guys who use women for their own pleasure with no regard to her feelings or how badly their manipulations may affect the girl's self-esteem. I've personally witnessed what happens when someone lets lust consume them and blind them with the false pretense of love. It's bad. Anyhow, the long and short of it is to be careful ladies...pick a nice guy...you'll be glad if you do. Don't give yourself up to someone just because they're attractive or even "sweet." This goes for both guys and girls. Realize that sex is a gift you are giving the other person because you're exposing yourself to them in extremely intimate ways. Respect that and be careful. Some guys just don't get it...be careful.